Problem members - Revision history

Jacky: /* However, while you are doing this it is best not to: */

2018-05-01T12:29:12Z

However, while you are doing this it is best not to:

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	When you've finished investigating, you can just state your position and then drop it - avoid letting them draw you into repetitive or circular arguments. You probably have better things to do with your time! If a member is getting to you do seek support from your fellow mods - you can post on Freegle Central for advice or just to vent your feelings - http://freegle.in/Central or by contacting info@ilovefreegle.org for more one-to-one advice.		When you've finished investigating, you can just state your position and then drop it - avoid letting them draw you into repetitive or circular arguments. You probably have better things to do with your time!

			If a member is getting to you do seek support from your fellow mods - you can post on Freegle Central for advice or just to vent your feelings - http://freegle.in/Central or by contacting info@ilovefreegle.org for more one-to-one advice or support@ilovefreegle.org if being able to view the chat between your members would be helpful to the situation (the support team can view chats and advise you in there has been problems).

	Making contact with neighbouring group mods can help too. They may have had dealings with the same member.		Making contact with neighbouring group mods can help too. They may have had dealings with the same member.

Jacky: /* However, while you are doing this it is best not to: */

2018-05-01T12:26:44Z

However, while you are doing this it is best not to:

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	When you've finished investigating, you can just state your position and then drop it - avoid letting them draw you into repetitive or circular arguments. You probably have better things to do with your time! If a member is getting to you do seek support from your fellow mods - you can post on Freegle Central for advice or just to vent your feelings:		When you've finished investigating, you can just state your position and then drop it - avoid letting them draw you into repetitive or circular arguments. You probably have better things to do with your time! If a member is getting to you do seek support from your fellow mods - you can post on Freegle Central for advice or just to vent your feelings - http://freegle.in/Central or by contacting info@ilovefreegle.org for more one-to-one advice.

	http://~~groups~~.~~yahoo.com/group~~/~~FreegleUK-~~Central

	~~Or on your local mods group – listed here:~~

	~~http://freegleonestopshop.org/Regional%20Groups/~~

	Or by contacting ~~freegle at:~~ info@~~iLoveFreegle~~.org

	Making contact with neighbouring group mods can help too. They may have had dealings with the same member.		Making contact with neighbouring group mods can help too. They may have had dealings with the same member.
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	And finally here is a selection of relevent [[Be_nice\|ADMINS]] you can use if you need to, or if you have any very serious issues arise, then [[Zero_Tolerence\|this]] is a good one to consider.		And finally here is a selection of relevent [[Be_nice\|ADMINS]] you can use if you need to, or if you have any very serious issues arise, then [[Zero_Tolerence\|this]] is a good one to consider.



	~~''Moderation Extension reference/s:''~~

	~~'''User DB lookup''' = http://wiki.modplugin.org/User_DB_lookup~~

	~~'''User DB lookup in pictures''' = http://wiki.modplugin.org/User_DB_lookup_in_pictures~~


	Back to [[Specific Problems]] or [[How To Deal With]]		Back to [[Specific Problems]] or [[How To Deal With]]
	[[category:Specific Problems]]		[[category:Specific Problems]]

Jacky at 13:43, 27 March 2018

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	* As a moderator, you can be perceived as being in a position of authority and some people may resent you for that or possibly make assumptions about you.		* As a moderator, you can be perceived as being in a position of authority and some people may resent you for that or possibly make assumptions about you.

	* Problem members won't necessarily go away even if you do ban them, so it is better to maintain the moral high ground.		* Problem members won't necessarily go away even if you do ban them, so it's better to maintain the moral high ground.

	* There are always two sides to every story, and sometimes members will appear to be difficult they ~~can~~ actually be just a bit confused.		* There are always two sides to every story, and sometimes members will appear to be difficult when they might actually be just a bit confused.

	=How to handle awkward members in a non-confrontational manner:=		=How to handle awkward members in a non-confrontational manner:=

Jacky at 15:49, 5 April 2017

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	* Problem members won't necessarily go away even if you do ban them, so it is better to maintain the moral high ground.		* Problem members won't necessarily go away even if you do ban them, so it is better to maintain the moral high ground.

	* There are always two sides to every story, and sometimes members ~~when~~ appear to be difficult they can actually be just a bit confused.		* There are always two sides to every story, and sometimes members will appear to be difficult they can actually be just a bit confused.

	=How to handle awkward members in a non-confrontational manner:=		=How to handle awkward members in a non-confrontational manner:=
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	*If you're threatened with legal action, try not to worry too much these are almost always empty threats. You can send them [[legal threat\|this]] if you like.		*If you're threatened with legal action, try not to worry too much these are almost always empty threats. You can send them [[legal threat\|this]] if you like.

	*~~Dont~~ take the member off moderation until the issues are resolved (if at all).		*Don't take the member off moderation until the issues are resolved (if at all).

	*If you find a member particularly difficult, ask a co-mod to take over. This takes stress off you, and it also shows the member that it's not just some personal vendetta on your part, because someone else agrees with you.		*If you find a member particularly difficult, ask a co-mod to take over. This takes stress off you, and it also shows the member that it's not just some personal vendetta on your part, because someone else agrees with you.

Jacky at 20:59, 28 July 2010

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			Back to [[Specific Problems]] or [[How To Deal With]]
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Jacky at 14:03, 19 July 2010

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			[[category:Specific Problems]]

Caroline at 16:40, 26 May 2010

2010-05-26T16:40:45Z

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	* Problem members won't necessarily go away even if you do ban them, so it is better to maintain the moral high ground.		* Problem members won't necessarily go away even if you do ban them, so it is better to maintain the moral high ground.

	* There are always two sides to every story, and ~~some~~ members ~~who~~ appear to be difficult ~~are~~ actually just confused.		* There are always two sides to every story, and sometimes members when appear to be difficult they can actually be just a bit confused.

	=How to handle awkward members in a non-confrontational manner:=		=How to handle awkward members in a non-confrontational manner:=

Bungay.driver: /* However, while you are doing this it is best not to: */

2010-05-20T06:09:17Z

However, while you are doing this it is best not to:

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	And finally here is a selection of relevent [[Be_nice\|ADMINS]] you can use if you need to, or if you have any very serious issues arise, then [[Zero_Tolerence\|this]] is a good one to consider.		And finally here is a selection of relevent [[Be_nice\|ADMINS]] you can use if you need to, or if you have any very serious issues arise, then [[Zero_Tolerence\|this]] is a good one to consider.



			''Moderation Extension reference/s:''

			'''User DB lookup''' = http://wiki.modplugin.org/User_DB_lookup

			'''User DB lookup in pictures''' = http://wiki.modplugin.org/User_DB_lookup_in_pictures

Caroline: /* How to handle awkward members in a non-confrontational manner: */

2010-05-04T20:14:56Z

How to handle awkward members in a non-confrontational manner:

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	*If the complaint is of a criminal nature don't try to solve it yourself, suggest that the complainant contacts the police and tell them that you are happy to be contacted (assuming you are).		*If the complaint is of a criminal nature don't try to solve it yourself, suggest that the complainant contacts the police and tell them that you are happy to be contacted (assuming you are).

	*If you're threatened with legal action, try not to worry too much these are almost always empty threats. You can send them[[legal threat\|this]] if you like.		*If you're threatened with legal action, try not to worry too much these are almost always empty threats. You can send them [[legal threat\|this]] if you like.

	*Dont take the member off moderation until the issues are resolved (if at all).		*Dont take the member off moderation until the issues are resolved (if at all).

Caroline: /* How to handle awkward members in a non-confrontational manner: */

2010-05-04T20:13:14Z

How to handle awkward members in a non-confrontational manner:

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	*If the complaint is of a criminal nature don't try to solve it yourself, suggest that the complainant contacts the police and tell them that you are happy to be contacted (assuming you are).		*If the complaint is of a criminal nature don't try to solve it yourself, suggest that the complainant contacts the police and tell them that you are happy to be contacted (assuming you are).

	*If you're threatened with legal action, try not to worry too much these are almost always empty threats. You can send them ~~this~~ [[legal threat\|this]] if you like.		*If you're threatened with legal action, try not to worry too much these are almost always empty threats. You can send them[[legal threat\|this]] if you like.

	*Dont take the member off moderation until the issues are resolved (if at all).		*Dont take the member off moderation until the issues are resolved (if at all).